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Identity Before Strategy · a free live masterclass

You're not tired from your life.
You're tired from maintaining it.

One hour, live, on the self you quietly outgrew — and how to set it down.

🌅 Saturday, October 10th, 2026 · 5:00 PM Rome time · Live on Zoom
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There's a kind of tired that sleep doesn't touch. The eight hours, the coffee — and still, empty.

For the longest time I thought something was wrong with me. It wasn't. I was exhausted from holding up a version of myself I'd outgrown years ago — and had never been told I was allowed to put down. This hour is about seeing that self clearly, and beginning to let it go.

What's really going on

Meet the self you outgrew

Somewhere along the way you built a version of yourself to cope with something — the strong one, the capable one, the one who has it handled and doesn't need anything from anyone. It worked. But the situation it was built for ended years ago, and no one tells you when a self has expired. So you keep running it. And running it costs everything you don't have left.

That's not a flaw in you. It's the quiet price of having succeeded at becoming someone. And it's exactly what we'll look at together.

Through every part of your life

The outgrown self runs quietly in four places

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Health

Performing wellness instead of feeling well.

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Wealth

Chasing a number when it was always a feeling.

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Relationships

Waiting for others to give what you won't give yourself.

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Purpose

Forcing your way to it instead of feeling your way there.

What happens in the hour

We walk it together in three steps

01

Understand

See the self you've been maintaining — the part you can't spot from inside your own story.

02

Release

Begin to set it down. This is the piece that actually changes things — and the one nobody teaches.

03

Rise

Meet who's underneath. The one who was there before you were ever named.

You'll leave able to name something you couldn't see when you arrived. That alone changes things.

When you join

Two gifts

Yours the moment you register

The Finding Freedom Meditations

A guided meditation for each of your four areas — Health, Wealth, Relationships, Purpose. A place to set it all down for a little while. Sent straight to your inbox.

Yours when you show up live

The book — The I in Identity

Just published — and it's yours, free, when you're there live on October 10th. The whole journey of wearing your labels lightly and remembering who you are beneath them.

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Saturday, October 10th, 2026 · 5:00 PM Rome time · 11 AM New York · 8 AM Los Angeles · 4 PM London · Live on Zoom

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Your guide

Sabine De Vito

I bring the light to the threshold, and you choose the path.

I'm not teaching this from a mountaintop. I'm in it with you — the labels, the money, the tiredness, the remembering. Magic with its feet on the ground.

— Sabine

Come find who you are, beneath all of it.

Saturday, October 10th, 2026 · Free · Live

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